改變

台灣新生代作家Peter Su說:這世界一直在變,人在變,陌生人的變,熟悉的人也會變,總言之,沒有一個人是不會變的。他說,只是變的方向和你的價值觀是否還是相同,也許有人突然變得冷落你,有人突然變得接近你、討厭你又或者是喜歡你,但在變化的同時,其實我們自己也在變,你也會變得冷落誰、接近誰、喜歡誰還是討厭誰。
台灣新生代作家Peter Su說:這世界一直在變,人在變,陌生人的變,熟悉的人也會變,總言之,沒有一個人是不會變的。

他說,只是變的方向和你的價值觀是否還是相同,也許有人突然變得冷落你,有人突然變得接近你、討厭你又或者是喜歡你,但在變化的同時,其實我們自己也在變,你也會變得冷落誰、接近誰、喜歡誰還是討厭誰。

誰都無法避免這樣的改變,我們只能接受然後繼續生活,不斷加強自己,試著做一個善良的人,調整自己的心態,這樣你才可以有足夠的力量去接受這世界所有的改變。
小時候,總是希望一家人整整齊齊,不期望會有甚麼變化,後來,哥哥先走出了家園,到外坡深造,接著是大姐跨州做自己想做的事,沒幾年,二姐也上了大學,家裡只剩我和爸媽。

當時,年少的自己對於一個又一個的兄姐離家出走,一次又一次衝擊內心理想化的家園時,我不禁問自己一家人整整齊齊在一起有那麼難嗎?,但是時間沒有因為我有這樣的疑問而停下來,也沒有人發現我有失落的心情,世界如常日復一日的轉動。
踏入社會打第一份工時,工作伙伴雖然少,但是大家都配合良好,戰鬥力也一致,可是好景沒過幾年,主任突然被告知調上總部,大家一片錯愕,怎麼說調人就調人,大家把眼淚流完,翌日生活還是得繼續。

後來,自己漸漸明白,人生無常,世界唯一不變的定律就是改變,一些執著的人事物,總有一天會學會放下,不須要突然的領悟,時間到的時候,一切都會被翻頁過去。
所以會離開自己的人,過了一些時候或過了好久的日子,就會突然不緬懷對方,這就是時間的魔力。當然,離開自己的人不代表他再也不存在,他依然留在我們生命的章頁,或許手機撥一撥,大家便能再相聚;若離開的人再也回不來,那麼讓他永遠成為生命頁面的標記吧。

既然人生離不開分離,就讓彼此學會珍惜當下。



文章来源:星洲日报.花城.人生百態.文:李彩婷.2017.03.04


感悟人生,品味人生百态

有一对兄弟,他们的家住在80层楼上。有一天他们外出旅行回家,发现大楼停电了!虽然他们背着大包的行李,但看来没有什么别的选择,于是哥哥对弟弟说,我们就爬楼梯上去!于是,他们背着两大包行李开始爬楼梯。爬到20楼的时候他们开始累了,哥哥说包包太重了,不如这样吧,我们把包包放在这里,等来电后坐电梯来拿。于是,他们把行李放在了20楼,轻松多了,继续向上爬。

他们有说有笑地往上爬,但是好景不长,到了40楼,两人实在累了。想到还只爬了一半,两人开始互相埋怨,指责对方不注意大楼的停电公告,才会落得如此下场。他们边吵边爬,就这样一路爬到了60楼。到了60楼,他们累得连吵架的力气也没有了。弟弟对哥哥说,我们不要吵了,爬完它吧。于是他们默默地继续爬楼,终于80楼到了!兴奋地来到家门口兄弟俩才发现他们的钥匙留在了20楼的包包里了。

有人说,这个故事其实就是反映了我们的人生:20岁之前,我们活在家人、老师的期望之下,背负着很多的压力、包袱,自己也不够成熟、能力不足,因此步履难免不稳。20岁之后,离开了众人的压力,卸下了包袱,开始全力以赴地追求自己的梦想,就这样愉快地过了20年。可是到了40岁,发现青春已逝,不免产生许多的遗憾和追悔,于是开始遗憾这个、惋惜那个、抱怨这个、嫉恨那个.就这样在抱怨中度过了20年。到了60岁,发现人生已所剩不多,于是告诉自己不要在抱怨了,就珍惜剩下的日子吧!于是默默地走完了自己的余年。到了生命的尽头,才想起自己好象有什么事情没有完成.原来,我们所有的梦想都留在了20岁的青春岁月。

认识自己,降伏自己,改变自己,才能改变别人。

经历了很多事,最近才明白了自己之前的无知,追求了很多错误的东西。

在人生中,我们曾经错过了很多东西,有了很多的遗憾,在我们以后要走的路上留下了很多很多的缺口,让我们无法祢补。

错在我们的追求,如果一开始就没有一些不应该发生的事发生,那后果会是怎么样呢?我们不曾想过,这个本来就是一个人无法解说的事。

回想过去,过去的你错过了什么呢,追求过什么错误的东西没?是不是很遗憾,很后悔。可是我们还有什么办法呢?也许可以从新开始,从新追求,这会是一个唯一的办法。

从新开始,忘记过去,寻找一个新的自我,过自己的人生,让他没有遗憾,也许多年后回想,你会很高兴对你的子孙后代说当年的往事……

感悟人生,品味人生百态,让自己过的更快乐,多一些高兴,少一些遗憾,多一份安慰,少一份谴责。

Makeup artist


A big thanks for my makeup artist Hanna Ng, a very responsible, skillful and cheerful girl~ Being so last minute of booking and without you I wouldn’t know I can look up this way! Having this first-in-my-life of putting up the fake-lashes and yeah two thumbs up for her stunning makeup service! Not to forget Henrietta for her great recommendation. Girls know best! Lol.

Is Bitcoin Truly Decentralized? Yes – and Here Is Why It’s Important

Those within the industry understand that one of Bitcoin's most important features—and perhaps its true core innovation—is its decentralized structure.

Bitcoin has no central control: no central repository of information, no central management, and, crucially, no central point of failure. And yet, most of the actual services and businesses built within the Bitcoin ecosystem are centralized. They are run by specific people, in specific locations, with specific computer systems, and they are susceptible to specific legal entanglements.

This situation creates tension and certainly a little irony—we have a decentralized technology, yet most things existing upon it are centralized.

To a casual observer, and even more to a cynical one, it may appear that the claim of Bitcoin's decentralization is a myth—an overstated feature conjured up as a bullet point in Bitcoin's marketing brochure, but suspiciously not apparent in the actual product.

Consider the structure of CoinBase, which is arguably the most successful Bitcoin wallet and payment service in existence. There is nothing decentralized about it.

Consider CoinBase's internal policies—they resemble PayPal’s, not the distributed utopia Bitcoiners imagine. Coinbase wants to know who you are. They want to know what you're doing with your money, and they'll block you if they disapprove. They spy on you and control you as much as any traditional financial institution (and to be fair, it's not really their fault—enforcers with guns will throw them in a cage if they don't do these things; it occurs under duress).

So the question arises: How can Bitcoiners claim decentralization when the premier Bitcoin service has essentially become a bank itself?

Critics point to centralized exchanges, wallets, and payment processors to condemn Bitcoin's claims of decentralization. When Mt. Gox exploded, losing half a billion dollars of customer money, critics expressed immense skepticism that Bitcoin was really anything unique at all—to them, it looked like just another new medium by which people are spied on at best, and ripped off, scammed, and defrauded at worst.

So isn't Bitcoin's claim of decentralization a lie?
No.

And here's why: to understand Bitcoin one must understand the difference between coercive centralization and market-based centralization. Bitcoin possesses the latter, but avoids the former, and that is a crucial distinction.

Coercive centralization is what we all experience in the legacy financial industry. The world's monetary system, based upon national fiat currencies created and managed by government-sponsored central banks, is coercive. It is coercive because the entities with the power over money's creation, regulation, and transfer have the will and the power to hurt you if you disobey. Not only that, but you are coerced into it in the first place, being forced to pay taxes and settle debts using only your government's anointed currency.

If you’d like to experience the coercion first-hand, try creating some dollars, and you will find yourself thrown in prison, your property taken from you. Or try transferring dollars in any way that is “unauthorized.” Then you will see what coercion means.

The entire financial system as it exists today rests upon this anti-market model of coercion—money moves only with the permission of those in control, and they're not in control by mutual contract, but by the privilege of violence. The various poisons such coercion bestows upon society are a topic for another essay, but the only reason people suffer this system is because it's been the only game in town.

Market-based centralization is fundamentally different. Its key feature is the ability to opt out.
Yes, CoinBase is a centralized entity. But you needn't use CoinBase to use Bitcoin. Yes, a Bitcoin exchange or web wallet is centralized, but you can always trade coins with a friend directly over the blockchain, or store it in a local wallet, without the permission of any third party.

A user of fiat is always forced to utilize a centralized service. A user of Bitcoin is never forced to utilize a centralized service. This is the key distinction between centralization found in Bitcoin (which is market-based) and centralization found in the traditional banking industry (which is coercive).

And this ability to opt out, while it may seem modest, enables wonderful things to happen, for the discipline of the marketplace can be realized. Consider: since every CoinBase user can opt out and leave the platform, this presents a natural check on CoinBase's ability to act with impropriety, and makes coercion impossible. Compare this to the model of a bank, which is able to burden its customers to a far more significant degree because it knows that if the customers want to participate in a meaningful way in the financial system, they have to use a bank and its associated fiat currency system.

It should thus be clear that Bitcoin enables users to withdraw into the neutral pasture of decentralized finance at any time, which means that any centralized service within the sphere exists only at the pleasure of its customers.

And thus the forms of market-based centralization found within Bitcoinland needn't be feared or condemned as one would the coercive centralization of the legacy financial system. What we have is indeed something fundamentally different, which is wholly compatible with the free-market structure and intent of Bitcoin's genesis. Indeed, a free market will inevitably lead to some points of market-based centralization when economic efficiencies can be found. Every voluntary organization of people or resources is market-based centralization, and by definition, there's an inability to coerce those who partake.

The key to judging the legitimacy of centralization is always the ability of users to opt out. Bitcoin provides this, while fiat and central banks do not.

That is the difference, and it is one that the world will soon come to appreciate.



重新出发



距离上一次登录网志已经大约7年前的事,
难道是所谓的七年之痒?
决定来个大翻新,重新出发。

告一段落《婵之声》那些曾经最美的回忆,
待续 《莫默笔记》。


美食清单

集中精力地祝福自己,告诉自己,一定要快快康复。答应自己等康复以后,会好好善待自己,好多好想品尝的东西等着我。。。

* 热腾腾的豆浆
* wm的cucumber milk
* McD的sundae雪糕
* puchong的客家擂茶
* sec2的酿豆腐
* 妈妈包的汤圆
* 麻坡四马路的laksa
* 大路旁的干贝粥
* starbuck的绿茶milkshake
* 麻坡的炸sotong
* kimgary的芝士锅饭
* hagendaz的绿茶雪糕
* miso汤
* rakuzen的soft shell crab
* 乌冬面
* 青口
* 马六甲的客家算盘子
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不是大酒楼的三珍海味,一样能令我垂涎三尺 :)


原来

原来,生病了真的要休息才会好。。。
原来,普通感冒也能病上两星期。。。
原来,感冒时身体冷得刺骨。。。
原来,咳嗽是不能吃橙的。。。
原来,redoxon比cebion有效虽同样是1000mg。。。
原来,西药的药性很强。。。
原来,喉咙痛可以用盐水漱口。。。
原来,半夜不舒服起身是很无助的。。。
原来,发烧时有人摸摸我的额头是幸福的。。。
原来,生病时想得到拥抱的感觉特别强烈。。。
原来,有人会愿意从老远来看我这个病人。。。
原来,自己是那么固执。。。
原来,有好多人在关心我。。。
原来,我应该好好珍惜一些人。。。



雪中送炭



尽管有着长长的blog list,都没时间去将他们一一道出。今天的突发事件,很突然,突然到我决定让他先插队,出现在我的blog先。生病的时刻真的很难受,冷气吹在身上,根本就是刺骨的。不行!不可以病的,我一直告诉自己。不过这一次意志力却失灵了,放工还得上课。。。顶不顺,半途离场。会不安,但我更不想在课室里晕倒,谁来抬我回家,哈哈。用最后的力气撑到地铁站,再回家。。多么希望快点到家。回到家后,多年老友竟然出现我家楼下,屡次劝他别来,天啊,还是拿他没办法。。不想麻烦人,所以下次会更善待自己身体。很好,都是中药,找到一个不逼我吃西药的人。唯一让我关注的,竟然是那一包包的珍珠粉。。。好多年前了,爸爸常吩咐我吃的东西,竟然冲一个年轻人手中接过,那种感觉,又怪又温馨。。。我愣了一会儿。。。这人不是我老爸,但他知道什么对我好,恰当的分配。珍珠宁神,我深知今晚睡前一包,肯定能睡得很甜。。。拿起温水,边blog边吞。。。晚上10.42分,在暖暖的床头灯旁,整个房间环绕着两个男人的爱心回忆里 。。。



咖啡



几时开始,我深深爱上咖啡。从恨到爱,到超爱。。终于知道何谓上瘾。那天和cousin在选购日常用品时,第一时间就丢了两大袋咖啡进购物篮里。她眼见不对劲,立刻奉劝我得自控。接着我还告诉回她很多咖啡上瘾的坏处。

口出这番话,顿时,想到自己对于男女之情不也如此吗。有时候明知某人不是一杯能让我喝了健康的茶,却意犹未尽,尝出了真感情。最糟莫过于当自己无法抽身,越陷越深。。。这杯茶的浓厚程度,足以让喝的人毕生难忘。

不是酒,却让人喝得如此不清醒。拿得起,放不下,爱到头来,已是伤痕累累。。

电邮里的回忆


整理旧电邮,惊觉里头有很多我已经忘了的对话、忘了的人、忘了的事。。。突然唤醒了一些已经淡忘的回忆。。。感觉好像,站在另一个人的角度,我看回了十七、八岁的自己。。微笑地读着曾经的我。life is moving on, I can't stop it at any ideal stage (though i wish to), but to appreciate every single present moment.



什么是天使轮?什么事A轮融资?B轮融资?

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